It’s amazing how much different life is when you’re uncomfortable with yourself. While it’s not uncommon to feed off of the feelings of others, you should always be your own best friend – the person that has your back when times get tough, and the person that knows that if something goes wrong, you’ll be okay.
When you lose that self-esteem, you lose one of the most important parts of your own happiness.
- Why stay motivated towards goals if you don’t have confidence you’ll succeed?
- Why recover from a breakup if you don’t believe you can meet someone?
- Why fight for a raise if you don’t think you’ll get it?
The world is filled with amazing people and great friends. But even if you don’t feel you can depend on anyone else, you should always feel you can depend on yourself, and to do that you have to be confident in yourself and your abilities.
Everyone Deserves High Self-Esteem
There’s no such thing as a person that deserves low self-esteem, because everyone has the ability to make the best out of themselves. But when you find yourself with low self-esteem it becomes a self-serving cycle. You start to ignore the good and get reinforced by the bad:
- Good Thing Happens – “I was lucky” or “I don’t deserve this” or “that was unexpected.”
- Bad Thing Happens – “I knew something bad would happen” or “I am not a great person.”
Low self-esteem can also cause you to see negative things in others when nothing is there. You replay conversations in your head and try to pick out all the mistakes, or you feel negative and emotional when something small goes wrong because it feels like the end of the world.
Your self-esteem doesn’t have to be this way. With self-esteem counselling, you’ll be able to recover – you’ll be able to start liking yourself again, and expecting that things are always going to turn out okay.
Self Esteem Counselling in Calgary
What you need is change, and that’s what self-esteem counselling is for. Something has caused you to feel this way about yourself and with the right tools and the right guidance you will be able to discover the tools inside of yourself that will help you rebuild it.
Learn How to Improve Your Self Esteem
At Innovative Counselling Solutions, our talented team can bring out the confidence that you are lacking inside of you. It’s there – it’s there for everyone, because there are always reasons to love yourself – but you need to work with a Calgary self-esteem counsellor that can help bring it back out.
When you’re ready to get started, contact us today. Our office in Calgary is always ready to take on new clients that are ready for a change in their lives. Give us a call and find out more about what self-esteem counselling can do for you.